I had the privilege of co-leading an inter-campus guys-only Advent
retreat this past weekend. It was an
intimate retreat with good discussion and soulful, quality time together. I was struck by how much these guys need more
Advent time in their lives—time to re-center and to sit still with the
complexity of a kingdom that is already here but not yet realized in its
fullness. This retreat reminded me of
the truth that our students do not always need retreats to entertain or
stimulate them in a high-tech sort of way. We used Ronald Rolheiser’s classic The Holy Longing as our guide as
discussed what it means to have an incarnational spirituality while also
addressing ways in which this spirituality informs how we act in the world
(social justice) and how we honor our bodies and our holy energies (sexuality).
I have perhaps read too many studies of young and emerging adult
spiritual and religious sensibilities, and it is easy to enter into a doomsday
sort of attitude about the spiritual trends of the young adults with whom we
minister. This weekend brought me back to
some basic truths about our ministries.
Our students are hungry and they are waiting for the invitation to
reflect on their lives with more depth.
I am grateful that this Advent season reminds me that deep down we have
the same ultimate longings. I am always
amazed how God satisfies these longings in the most unexpected ways. A co-leader of the retreat reminded me of this classic prayer of Pierre Teilhard de Chardin as a way of summarizing the
gentle, gradual and powerful movement of God in our lives:
“Above all, trust in the slow work of God
We are quite naturally impatient in everything
to reach the end without delay
We should like to skip the intermediate stages.
We are impatient of being on the way to something
unknown, something new. And yet it is the law of all progress
that it is made by passing through
some stages of instability-
and that it may take a very long time. And so I think it is
with you.
your ideas mature gradually – let them grow,
let them shape themselves, without undue haste. Don’t try to force
them on,
as though you could be today what time
(that is to say, grace and circumstances
acting on your own good will)
will make of you tomorrow. Only God could say what this new spirit
gradually forming within you will be. Give Our Lord the benefit of
believing
that his hand is leading you, and accept the anxiety of feeling
yourself
in suspense and incomplete.”
Greg Baker is Director of Campus Ministry
for Mercyhurst University in Erie, PA